People are just so confused.... i've never understood it - and that means a lot coming from me since i can be confused at times too... like i find it really hard to decide what to pick from a menu.. or which pullover i should buy.... but atleast im confused about the little things in life... not the more important things like which job i want to do and which guy i want to be with...
This friend of mine called me one morning - she was in a state of breakdown... she's caught in a complicated relationship (well complicated is kinda n understatement) the tension had gotten to her.. to the point that it looked to me like she was having a fit... n i was scared.. wanted to take her to a doctor but she wudnt listen.... it took an hour or more of talking to her... listening to her curse the guy (he deserves it) before she finally calmed down. she wanted to kill him - didnt want to see his face again.... It looked like she had pretty much made up her mind that she wanted him out of her life.... and then that same afternoon - there she was again - calling him up and telling me that she cudnt live without him.... girl decide.... what was i supposed to do? help her get rid of him? help her get him back? I decided to stay out of it.... n i think thats the wisest thing to do here...
But it got me thinking... about inertia - yes newtons first law applies to relationships as well... people dont get along but stick to each other because its familiar... n no one else is around to replace their partners. And like newton said... a body in rest or state of uniform motion will continue to remain in rest or state of uniform motion unless an external force acts on it... so if there's no "external force" or third person, people tend to hang on to relationships... but really how good is that? if i was in my friends position, i would have gotten rid of the guy long ago... but the decision is hers to make not mine...
my problem is that other people's problems effect me - i dont want them to but they do.... infact i think i handle my own problems much better... cause i can do something about my own problems... with other people all i can do is worry.... Any solutions?
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wow, what an aesthetic correlation of ur frd's behavior to Newton's laws!
In our college days, we had come across a 10-point principle!
If u really like someone- state some absolutely true 10 facts/qualities abt the gal/guy that u immensely appreciate.
and go ahead only if u reach 10 :-)))
This test must be sounding funny, just wanted to share it with u!!
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